Sit down and shut up: alleged ex-“porn” star forced out of school job

Fox News Reports: Ex-Porn Star Quits School Cafeteria Job After Uproar

Let me ask a question.

Actually, I am not asking permission.

I am here to say, what is wrong with us?

Let’s pretend for a moment, there is a lovely woman.

The woman has made her living for some years as an “adult entertainer”. Whatever that means. If she is over 18 and TRULY exercises free will, economy, or pimps or whatever, have not forced her in the role, then………

So let’s pretend, one of the three:

a) she did so with free will; or
b) she did so without choice; or
c) she was forced into same.

Ok.

Now, we meet a woman, a woman, wanting to be who she is in this moment, someone who wants to work at a school, for, forgive me, less than $5,800.00 a year, and now, parents want her out?

Did I miss something?

Is she accused, convicted beyond a reasonable doubt of doing something to innocent children? (btw: all children are innocent).

Is there anyone out here that has spent a moment in Suburbia? How it is always others and not the inhabitants, that have skeletons?

I fear a projection of misconceived issues may be afoot.

I don’t know this woman portrayed in this Fox News article and now being publicly lambasted, but what I don’t see is any allegations as to how this woman treated children.

Really people, can we grow up and give our children a better model for the future?

This is a witch hunt, Salem circa 2008.

Don’t be a part of it.

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10 thoughts on “Sit down and shut up: alleged ex-“porn” star forced out of school job

  1. From reading the article, the administration didn’t feel a need to let her go; it was the public. I do wish she would have stood her ground, but amid all the publicity perhaps she felt it was better to simply let it go. Also, I’m sure she felt it wasn’t worth the time and effort to fight this issue. It is sad that many people are so judgmental of others. So much so, they loose insight of the real issue. Does being an ex porn star make her detrimental to the welfare of the children? I think not! Will the undue and unfair publicity from those judgmental self righteous . . . have an effect on the her or effect the children’s focus. . . perhaps.

    Keep your eye on the prize! Great eyeopener as always, SA.

    PLL, CordieB.

  2. People are so judgemental and usually uninformed (often too lazy to investigate on their own). I guess if she tried to attend one of their churchs she would not be worthy to worship there..eh?

    Hopefully, she will move on to better things..like a degree or two so she can help others in similar situations. The cards are on the table now so she can take the past and the negatives and use them for motivation and empowerment!

  3. It must be wonderful living in Vineland NJ. A most hallowed ground in suburbia New Jersey, Vineland apparently is reserved for only beautiful little people, living in beautiful little homes without any skeletons (obviously not one spine amongst them), not even a tip of single index finger stored away in their neatly organized tightly locked beautiful little closets.

    I imagine that amongst all those beautiful little people that “cast a stone” at this woman (sound familiar?) are those that would (or have), with some assurance of anonymity, dive in head first at most any skirt or pants that spread its legs.

    Judgmental people, oh yes. Uninformed, oh I doubt that. I am sure all those beautiful little people that cast this stone at this woman did not come to this decrepit decision without the proper amount of “personal due diligence” done online from the secluded safety and anonymity of their bedrooms or tightly locked closets.

    Truly, truly pathetic beautiful little people run Vineland NJ.

  4. Here are my thoughts………………

    The township, most likely based on information from its attorney, did the right thing by not taking action. No offense to them, but it is sometimes also known as cya, they don’t want to get sued down the road.

    My point, although not articulate, was rather simple, I don’t care who the woman was yesterday, I only care who she is today. And to be frank with you, I didn’t see much to freak me out about who she was yesterday either, free society, having to make money, choices are made, who am I to know why?

    I think if there was an allegation involving the children, there would need to be a pause for everyone’s benefit, the woman and the children, to figure out what’s what, to the extent we are capable of same.

    I just think though, it’s a modern day witch hunt, I for one, will not be cutting out the letter A from scarlet cloth.

    Peace be with you.

  5. “I didn’t see much to freak me out about who she was yesterday either, free society, having to make money, choices are made, who am I to know why?”

    Amen, SE! The amazing thing to me is while there is only a small sustained outcry about the shameful state of our educational system, the self-proclaimed righteous among us are more than willing to rush to “protect” our kids from those they deem immoral. I hope they would also ban as teachers some of those ex-investment and mortgage bankers who have left our nation floundering in crisis. They didn’t just participate in adult entertainment – they screwed us royally! Or isn’t righteous outrage an equal opportunity accuser?

    Always an interesting and thoughtful read. Thanks for your voice. Hope you are well, SE. It’s been a while. 😉

  6. HEY THERE RONNIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    SHOUT OUT TO YOU.

    I WISH I COULD SAY IT BETTER THAN YOU (ACTUALLY I DON’T), I’M QUITE PLEASED TO HAVE BEEN GRACED WITH YOUR WORDS, OPENING MY THOUGHTS FURTHER.

    IT’S A SLIPPERY SLOPE ISN’T IT? ALWAYS COMES BACK TO LOOKING IN THE MIRROR, WITH OUR GLASSES AND THE LIGHTS ON!

  7. If it were the male teacher who in his past had done a porn movie or two, or a young male gym teacher who works the stage of Chippendale’s on weekend nights, would the result be the same?

    OH I THINK NOT!

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